Sunday, January 8, 2017

Try Something New

Natalie inspired me to set a short-term goal last year.  I’m happy to say I was able to achieve the goal!  It’s something that I haven’t done in quite a while.  Memorization!  At first, I was not sure I would be able to do it.  But, isn’t that what goal-setting is all about?  It’s about challenging yourself to do something that you want to do and figuring out how to get it done!

So, how did Natalie inspire me?  I have never even met Natalie.  She is my friend’s 11-year-old granddaughter.  Natalie memorizes Bible verses as part of her homework at her Christian school.  My friend frequently tells me the verses Natalie has memorized.  I’m always so impressed.  Then, last Fall, my friend told me that Natalie memorized Isaiah 53:1-7.  Wow!  Seven verses!  Memorizing a single verse is one thing, but she memorized seven verses!  I wondered if I could do it, too.  I told my friend I wanted to try it.  If Natalie could do it, maybe I could do it, too!

My friend said she would touch base with me before Thanksgiving to hear me recite the verses.  OK, I thought.  I have six weeks to memorize the verses.  After memorizing the first two verses, I made a plan to memorize a verse a week until I had memorized all seven verses.  Here they are, from memory:

Isaiah 53:1-7:

1- Who has believed our message, and to whom has the arm of the Lord been revealed?
2- He grew up before him like a tender shoot, and like a root out of dry ground.  He had no beauty or majesty to attract us to him, nothing in his appearance that we should desire him.
3- He was despised and rejected by mankind, a man of suffering, and familiar with pain.  Like one from whom people hide their faces, he was despised, and we held him in low esteem.
4- Surely he took up our pain and bore our suffering, yet we considered him punished by God, stricken by him, and afflicted.
5- But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities.  The punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed.
6- We all, like sheep, have gone astray; each of us has turned to our own way, and the Lord laid on him the iniquity of us all.
7- He was oppressed and afflicted, yet he did not open his mouth.  He was led like a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before its shearers is silent, so he did not open his mouth.

(The prophet Isaiah wrote those words almost seven hundred years before Christ the Messiah was born.)

Thanks to Natalie and her dedication to memorization, I discovered, or re-discovered, that I love to memorize.  When I was a kid, probably Natalie’s age, I memorized the names of the books of the Old Testament.  It was a song that my sisters and I learned in Sunday School.  I still know it today, and I think of it often when I read the Old Testament.  I have no trouble finding the books and the verses.

Try something new!  Challenge yourself.  Another friend of mine discovered an amazing art talent that she did not know she had.  She began coloring the intricate designs in coloring books for adults, and she found a hidden creativity in herself.  She creates unique paintings using parts of the coloring books and adding her own designs inspired by other things, such as photographs of family and pets.  She has done beautiful paintings that take my breath away!  She even won an art contest last year!

Use your imagination.  Go through the goal-setting exercise I mapped out in my blogpost, “A New Year Goal Strategy,” and add one more goal… “I will try something new this year.  I don’t know what it is yet, but I will keep my eyes and ears open, and I will look for inspiration from those around me.”

My number one goal still is to finish a book, and I am continuing to work on all three book projects that I have in process.  I am strategizing to make sure I complete at least one of the books by the end of 2017!

Let’s keep moving forward in our goal journeys together.  Stay inspired, stay focused, and seek God’s guidance on a daily basis throughout 2017.

Devotion

I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.  Psalm 32:8

Prayer:
      

Lord, thank you for inspiring us with verses from the Bible and through our daily walk with you.  We know that you care about us and love us, and that you want a close relationship with us.  We seek your guidance in our goal-setting journeys.  I pray that you would lead us to try new things that you have in store for us to do.  Help us to discover the talents and gifts you have given us!  In Jesus’ name, Amen.


© 2017 Linda Lijewski

Sunday, January 1, 2017

A New Year Goal Strategy

Happy New Year!  Yesterday was the last day of 2016.  I started the day by getting on my knees to thank God for 2016.  I thanked Him for the ups and the downs.  Then I decided to write them down.  I made a list of the good things, the accomplishments, the joys.  Then I listed the disappointments.  As I wrote them on the paper, I realized that I could turn some, if not all, of the disappointments into goals!  I ended my prayer by asking God for help with ALL the ups and downs of the coming New Year!

How do you turn disappointments into goals?  Well, it really is a very simple problem-solving technique.  I’ve talked about it in several blogposts (“Goals 101,” “Goals 201,” and “Mindset”), and I challenge you to DO IT NOW.  Today is the perfect day to identify some goals for 2017!

Take out an 8½ x 11 sheet of paper.
 
First, write down the heading, “Accomplishments.”  Enumerate your accomplishments in 2016.  Try to list three or more, but if you have none, don’t be afraid to write “None.”  (If you write “None,” you should turn it into a goal for 2017… it’s time to accomplish something!)

Next, write down the heading, “Disappointments.”  Enumerate your disappointments in 2016.  The list could include anything that you believe was challenging or disappointing in your life during the past year, including health problems, relationship issues, failure to meet specific goals, areas in your life that you wish to improve, etc.  Try to list at least three.  Do not write “None.”  We all should have areas we seek to improve (see my blogpost, “Mindset”).

Now, identify some goals and list them under a “Goal” heading.  Evaluate your accomplishments and decide how to keep them going.  Look at each disappointment and think about how to turn it into a goal.  For example, if your goal is weight loss, don’t list “lose weight” as your goal.  Identify a specific action you can take, such as “increase my exercise,” and make that your goal, one small step at a time (see my blogpost, “10 Minutes A Day”).  If you’re disappointed that another year went by and you didn’t clean out your basement, don’t list “clean my basement” as your goal.  Instead, identify something specific, such as “make a trip to Goodwill once a month” (or, even better, once a week!), and make that your goal.  If your disappointment is a relationship issue, try setting a goal such as, “I will thank my husband (or wife) each day for something nice he (or she) does for me.”  (Now that is an attitude-changer!)  If another year went by and you didn’t take the trip of your dreams, set a goal to make it happen (e.g., open a travel account and initiate a direct deposit from your paycheck, and then look at your calendar)!

So, you can see that, with some prayerful reflection, you can turn disappointments into goals… and take some positive action.  Set a goal not to have any of the same disappointments appear on next year’s list.  Instead, they will be listed under "Accomplishments"!

Once you have identified the resources you may need and you have listed them under each goal, write down one last heading, entitled, “THIS WEEK.”  Write down one small step you can take this week to move toward each goal.  See?  Now you’ve already started, and I bet you’re feeling pretty good about overcoming those disappointments and accomplishing your goals!

Let’s summarize: (1) list your accomplishments/disappointments (thank God), (2) set your goals (write them down), and (3) take positive action (start this week).  This is a great problem-solving technique!

Don’t forget to start the process with prayer and ask for God’s wisdom each day as you move forward to achieve your goals for 2017!

Devotion

For the foolishness of God is wiser than man’s wisdom, and the weakness of God is stronger than man’s strength.  1 Corinthians 1:25

Prayer:
       

Lord, thank you for 2016.  Thank you for the ups and the downs.  Teach us what you want us to know and give us wisdom to learn from our accomplishments and our disappointments.  We acknowledge that all we have is from you, and we seek to do the right thing with the blessings and gifts you have given us.  Help us to make plans and take action, in dependence on you every day, as we move in the direction of our goals.  In Jesus’ name, Amen.


© 2017 Linda Lijewski